tonguengroover wrote: Tue Aug 22, 2023 2:12 pm
CowboyT wrote: Tue Aug 22, 2023 1:45 pm
WHAT CHANGED?
What changed is more people have guns and the parents don't teach responsible gun use.
Violent movies - Hollywood
Violent gaming online
Gangs
Social programming where it is taught that it is OK to use deadly force to win an argument
Right Wing Radicalism enforced with Religious Groups
I'm good with locking up guns if you have youngsters. I did. But I also was allowed to have guns on my gunrack ever since I was 12 years old.
Other than the "right wing radicalism/religious groups" comment, I would say the above reasons by tonguengroover give a pretty good set of, "what's changed". And that's what I saw in our schools, too. I saw this just this last weekend with some kids basically running wild and the parents not reining in their little "darlings". There's no way my parents would've let me get away with the kind of behaviour that I'm seeing now.
The one other correction I might make to the above list is that, back in the day, more families as a percentage were gun-owning families vs. today. Today, you go to the coastal cities, which are predominately Democrat, you see revulsion against gun ownership. "Oh, I'd never own one of those killing things, that's disgusting!" Some decades ago, by contrast, that wasn't there nearly as much hatred against firearms, even in the 1970's San Francisco or LA. Thus, you had a higher percentage of parents teaching their kids proper gun safety. Mas Ayoob talks about his own upbringing in his book, "In the Gravest Extreme". The gun wasn't in some safe. It also wasn't the forbidden fruit, i. e. "if you want to learn about it, you come ask me, and you touch this only with permission and in my presence." Young Mas followed his father's instructions, and upon turning 18, Mr. Ayoob gifted Mas that very 1911 pistol, saying, "I hope to God you never have to use it. But if you ever do...don't miss."
That was the norm.
Far too many parents aren't teaching that anymore. Far too many parents are letting their kids raise themselves, with predicable results. Parents need to teach their kids these safety rules.
What scares me about these legislative proposals isn't a given parent's decision to lock or not lock up guns--that's got to be a parent's choice--but rather the *legal mandate* proposals that threaten to put a parent in jail for not doing so. You've got to know your kid, and that means paying attention to that kid, in order to decide whether to put their guns in safes, as one set of parts does (they have a mentally challenged child), or how both my Dad and Grandpa, and Mas Ayoob's father, didn't put their guns in safes.